this fucking mentality that you can’t be best friends with your significant other, that romance ruins a friendship, that BOTH FRIENDSHIP AND ROMANCE CANNOT OCCUR SIMULTANEOUSLY kills me like
that’s such a horrible, horrible and unhealthy mentality to have
telling guys that you’re more interested in people of the female persuasion and that you had a guy before you were single is literally the worst thing.
"oh snap was he so terrible that he turned you lesbian?"
no he was really nice and we still think well of each other despite no longer being romantically involved. my preference in partners isn’t a measure of how i was treated in the relationship previous.